Well, to be fair, she's now an older lady, but I would still say you are a very sensitive, delicate boy. I can tell you from experience that the strong meat is sometimes the mot juste.
That's just silly - you can find bad photos of any lady in her 40s.. seriously, I've never
particularly found her attractive, and I do believe she may have once been overrated, but she's certainly not terrible, and your judgement is absurdly over the top and excessively harsh.
Perhaps there is something about her persona you don't like.