And here was me thinking Jesus spoke about forgiveness an love and such
yes, that is the "GRACE" part
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I don't recall him advocating shunning and fleeing much myself (things one does tend to associate with 'right wing fundies').
that's because you turn his Grace into a licence for immorality, just as Jude 4 predicted.
"For certain men whose condemnation was written about long ago have secretly slipped in among you. They are godless men, who change the grace of our God into a license for immorality and deny Jesus Christ our only Sovereign and Lord." (Jude 4)
Wow, Jude really hit the nail on the head there didn't he. It's amazing that he predicted that at some point in the future, someone might not fully agree with the official line.
Anyway, I don't necessarily agree that this passage really covers the present case: I don't agree that I advocate immorality, but the more pertinant point is that I don't advocate anything on the basis of what God or Jesus said/did/suggested/whatever.
Here is Jesus talking about the sin of sexual immorality:
Matthew 15:19
For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false testimony, slander.
Mark 7:21
For from within, out of men's hearts, come evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, murder, adultery,
First, as stated (or at least infered) before, I only directed my remarks about that which is attributed to Jesus, so I'll leave aside St. Paul et al. Given that we have essentially the above which is essentially the same remark (IIRC Matthew's Gospel is largely a copy of Mark's?...anyway, I digress).
With regards to sexual morality, Jesus doesn't give any indication of what's included. I don't deny that there are immoral sexual acts, for all I know Jesus's position could have been in sync with mine or with yours or with neither - who knows?
Nor does Jesus mention shunning or fleeing here. As I recall, Jesus was keen on meeting sinners nor shunning them; certainly not fleeing from them.
All in all, I don't see how the quote supports your position in any way, shape or form.