Exit polls are polls, and as such they're not much more "actual" than the Pew numbers. Pew is already polling thousands of people, so their MoE is about as low as you can get. And exit polls and the Pew surveys ask partisan ID questions in slightly different ways, and at different points in the surveys, yadda yadda, so I wouldn't lose a whole lot of sleep over the finer details.
Actually, PEW and Exit polls are different..
The exit polls are reweighted
after the fact to exactly match the results of a real election.
They are not perfect, but after they have been reweighed, they are awfully darn close.
But returning to PEW...
PEW said a D +11 in 2008, and now PEW says D +8, ie a 3% R improvement
The trend line identified by Pew is the gap has narrowed by about 3% since 2008, so this would suggest 2012 exit polls of Dem +45or so? based on a 3% change from 2008, as per the PEW trendline?