Opinion of affirmative consent/"Yes Means Yes"

[Famous Mortimer]

Started out good but it's gotten out of hand.

There's been an ideological shift among women from "you don't have to have said no for it to qualify as a rape" (fair statement) to "you shouldn't say no" as if saying no is somehow unfeminist or some huge, unreasonable burden.

I think the it should be modified to something like "yes means yes but say no if you can"