You literally said "a girl in the boys room would be harassed badly" which is correct! A transgirl in the boys bathroom would be harassed badly! Likewise, you suggested that "a boy in the girls room would make girs feel uncomfortable". I also agree! A transboy in the girl's room would certainly make many girls uncomfortable.
Okay. Do you we disagree, then?
To me, the solution seems clear: people who have fully transitioned should be able to go to the bathroom/locker room of their new gender, and people who haven't yet fully transitioned shouldn't.
That's reasonable. Although, I do not think anyone has the right to be on a team or in a locker room just because they feel this way or that way.
see the thing is, dempgh,
if we put aside human rights every time someone felt ~uncomfortable~ about them, we wouldn't have any form of human rights.
Using the opposite washroom or locker room is not a right, it's an imposition.
Locker rooms are traumatic places.
I disagree. At least, you have to make an effort to fit in like you do anywhere.
Joke, but many are uneasy about them. Its a vulnerable place, especially when you are young.
Yeah, it can be intimidating. Maybe because of the competition or who knows, but good leadership and an effort to fit in can assuage a lot of the intimidation.
I remember playing with a fat, awkward kid, and I said, "Look, I don't know about the other guys, but as long as you're willing to meet us all halfway, you're cool with me." Sadly, he didn't stick around. I felt bad, but that's how it was.
