Truer words have seldom been spoken.
I'll give you one last tip spark. Stop being yourself. Being yourself is not a good thing in life, always try to be a better version of yourself, this includes taking into account societal norms. Taking into account norms means you consider how your actions make others feel. It's not conformity, it's being a polite person.
I've never identified well with the "be yourself" crowd. Do you want 7 billion ids walking around this planet!?
Being yourself is just selfish and lazy, it's actually something I try and tell anyone younger than me to stop doing.
