Excuse me, But don't the Victors usually dictate the terms of surrender? But I'll play along.
1. You want 'Religious Freedom'? No. Here's why:
Since the founding of this Nation, these kind of marriages have happened:
Jewish Woman-Christian Man
Atheist Woman-Muslim Man
Muslim Woman-Christian Man
Woman entering her 2nd marriage- Man entering his 3rd marriage
Hindu Woman-Atheist Man
And every combo there within. And yet I NEVER heard about people whining that THESE weddings were against their religious beliefs.
So I must then conclude that 'Religious Freedom' is code for Gay Bashing.
2. You'd like to stop being called "Haters"? No.
You are in fact 'Haters' You seem to hate, not gay people, but people who are happy being gay. You want us to cower in our closets. That's fine. You may think that if you wish, But it does, in fact make you a hater.