Do Israeli citizens from Egypt, Iraq, Lebanon, Jordan, S.Arabia, Iran, Libya, Tunisia..(you get the idea) get "monetary compensation" in this scheme of yours?
(and does your lists refer to all their descendants too? I assume so, cause "special", if so, add that to the question too)
Well, they have citizenship and have not been living in refugee camps for the time being. Their situation is very different. A Jew who was expelled from an Arab country or left voluntarily and moved to Israel did not face anywhere near the loss of economic and social capital that a Palestinian who was expelled from Israel [or left voluntarily, you seem to have missed part here] to a neighboring country has faced.
Indeed, and it seems like nobody involved has learned a damn thing from this situation. Do you think Jordan, Lebanon, etc would be better off today had they had been as accepting as Israel? Would the refugees be better off?
(and I'm going to need a cite that the average Palestinian lost more "economic and social capital" when forced to flee than the average Jew that was forced to flee, that seems dubious)
I'm not sure why you think Jordan or Lebanon are under any obligation to accept Palestinian refugees unconditionally.
Because most of the people were born within their borders, lived their whole life in their borders, possibly going back multiple generations.