I'm a heterosexual, and have always been guilty of mystifying women, and increasingly so as time goes on. but I notice, I do not mystify their uniquely feminine aspects: breasts and vaginas, I know crudely what I want to do with them, but that's it. I feel as if I understand them. what I am talking about here are those 'parts' that we share: hands, feet, thighs, ass, and so on. so often I am fascinated for moments on end just by watching an attractive woman gesticulate with and use her hands!
the only problem is you considering this a possible problem.
