Actually, I think it is moi. I'm serious! (And I double checked to make sure that the question was not as, and limited, to political similarity. Politics in the end I am realizing in my old age, is but rounding error. It just doesn't matter much. Other things matter much more.
opebo is an old queen? Who knew?
I have to agree with him there in some ways, Grumps. I remember one girl I was seeing back in the early 1990s told me I was 'more of a girl than she was' because I matched my boxer shorts to my outfits. And now, as a fussy old bachelor and 'john', I have to confess the ways of the gay sometimes make more sense to me than those of the married/normal straightman.