dazzleman
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« on: April 02, 2005, 08:33:35 AM » |
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One of the most important rules in life is to do things in the right order. That means education first, then marriage, then children.
You can usually get away with one screw-up on this, but not two. People on welfare generally have done things in totally the wrong order - children first, then, if at all, educaton, and then, if at all, marriage.
If I had had a kid while still in high school, and never had been able to finish my education, AND had to raise the kid alone, I'd be in a terrible position. Back then, I was working for a little above minimum wage. That where everybody starts out. With experience and education, you climb above that. But some people make choices that ensure that they will always remain there.
Raising kids is a 2-person job, both financially and emotionally. Even a non-working spouse provides financial benefit indirectly by handling issues outside work so that the breadwinning spouse can focus on making money.
The single parent often does not have the psychic energy to climb the career ladder, because the situation at home is so demanding, and they effectively have to do the job of two people. But if that's what they've chose, whose fault is that?
I don't agree that most jobs are minimum wage or a little above. I know a lot of people, and I don't know anybody who works at the level job they had as a teenager.
The problem is much more complex than that, and is really two-fold. One is social and demographic, the other economic, and they overlap. On the one hand, there is a political philosophy, loosely called feminism, that effectively encourages people, particularly women, to eschew traditional values, one of the most important of which was to have a husband before you have a child. This, coupled with perverse incentives from the government to the underclass, has created a boom in single-parent families.
At the same time, women have been encouraged to work outside the home, and a circular problem has been created. Demographically, the housing market is largely driven by 2-career families, meaning that prices have risen dramatically, relative to a single person's income, in the last 3 decades. A family living on one average income, and needing to provide its own housing, is worse-off today than 30 years ago because of this.
On the economic front, the loss of global manufacturing supremacy by the US, in the 1970s, something that could not have been avoided, means that today there is more of a premium on education than there was in the past. Real earnings for unskilled workers have fallen, while real earnings for educated workers has risen sharply. This has been compounded by the switch from predominantly single income to two-income households, effectively widening the gap between the educated and uneducated, since the uneducated have lost the ability they had previously to narrow the earnings gap by having the wife in the family work.
So in sum, there is a confluence of social and economic factors that has entrenched poverty and deprivation more deeply for those who don't do things in the right order. We should be telling our kids this, drumming it into their heads, so that they see the consequences of messing up in this area, because this is not something that any of us can fundamentally change.
opebo's proposals, as always, are laughable. They will only deepen the problem. The only real solution is to discourage people from getting themselves into a situation in which they have a child with no spouse and no job skills.
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