So what is the right direction to move towards, if never fully reach?
The way that I think it would be more useful to put it right now would be along the lines of what Per Albin Hansson called the "People's Home" (
Folkhemmet), a society where everyone is equally valued and cared for, where there are "no special favorites and no stepchildren." These are the ideals that I believe modern society needs to embrace in order to fight against the tendency toward selfishness, distrust and hatred of everything "other". My current display name is also, in part, a tribute to this spirit (Jante's Law is something distinct from the Folkhemmet, but I think the two reinforce each other). But the important thing to remember is that these same ideals, applied to a different context, might actually do more harm than good. That's what happened to many ideals in history, and that is why I'm wary of putting too much emphasis on them.