Migrendel,
No one is exploiting race here, or gender. You're the only one to bring either up in this thread.
Opebo,
Your defense has become strained, particularly by your refusal to support your claims with evidence.
I'm not going to sit there and say migrendel made a bad post. In fact some of it I agree with despite the fact I lived in an area where lazy welfare recipients took advantage of an otherwise good program and decided to smoke crack on taxpayer dollars. Granted good paying jobs are hard to come by even for college grads.
However, you must realize that there are people that are on welfare for large amounts of time and don't even bother looking for work or to improve their standing in life. This is not a race issue either because I have seen plenty of whites abuse the system as well. I can sit here and say I am for a strong safety net and welfare reform at the same time.
Here's what we need to address- good paying jobs relative to education. It is quite sad that even with a college degree one only starts at $40,000 per year and is asked to work 60+ hours per week. Granted, it only starting out, but that's outright cruel considering the cost of living and exorbitant student loans. Compared to about 30-50 years ago a college degree paid MUCH more now WITHOUT the heavy student loan burden. Also, a high school diploma could easily support a family back then even with one income. It can't anymore. We are heading back toward the turn of last century.