Which is more immoral?

[John Dibble]

Option 1 is more immoral and probably more painful emotionally(physical should be obvious) so that's what I voted, though those who've never seen how adultery can hurt someone probably don't understand the level of emotional pain it can cause. When my step-dad cheated on my mom she was really hurt(almost to the level of when my dad died), though I think it was the fact that he outright lied about it when confronted(she had the proof, but he didn't know that) that hurt the most - people make mistakes, but being dishonest about it just makes the violation of trust much worse.