I think that you have to consider what you are getting for all your tax money.
Schools- Free Education for your children K-12
Roads- You couldn't get to work to make your money without them
Police protection- The cops suck when they're handing you a speeding ticket but you'd better thank Jesus they're there.
Fire Protection- Just might come in handy
Military Protection- There's a lot of pork here but it's a worthy cause
Parks- Making life more pleasant
Social Security- Keeping you from having to support your elderly parents/grandparents.
Medical research- Hopefully, we can kick cancer before I'm old
College Aid-Most Americans wouldn't make it past high school without it.
I'm not here to argue that everything the government does is efficient or wise, but you have to consider all the good things you're getting before you bitch about taxes. Federal Budget for 2006 is 2.6 trillion dollars, which comes to about $9,000 for each man, woman, and child. If you're not paying that much for each member of your family, you're getting a bargain.
Another way to look at it is if you're getting a bargain then someone else is getting ripped off.
Some other things you might want to consider:
Despite the huge amount the government takes from us they still run a $500 billion deficit per year which increases the national debt. That's a problem we are passing on to future generations.
You may like social security and medicare but those programs are way underfunded. In fact over the long term they are underfunded by about $80 trillion in today's dollars as Bruce Bartlett points out in this article
http://www.ncpa.org/edo/bb/2005/20050427bb.htm The $80 trillion is about 6 or 7 times our current GDP. That's in addition to all the taxes that government expects to collect over that time period. And it is the result of a government that absolutely will not behave responsibly. Rather than cutting out pork projects and trying to streamline medicare, government just adds on more pork and adds a drug program to medicare.
Politicians know the big problems will show up in the distant future, long after they are out of office, so they don't care about it. In the short term they look good to their constituents because of all the free goodies they're handing out.
In the mean time government grows bigger and bigger and America becomes more and more socialist. The big programs like social security, medicare and medicaid just keep growing never getting smaller. Eventually they could consume the entire GDP, except that economic collapse will occur before that happens.