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« Reply #50 on: October 24, 2013, 05:09:43 PM »

It also disturbs me from a personal level how this is seen as "doom and gloom" and automatically a problem (except for a few like angus). No I'm not Japanese. Yes I'm East Asian, yes I'm asexual, no I don't plan on having children. Yes I wish I had a partner but recently I've realized that in reality, I wouldn't like being in a relationship with all the responsibilities that entails. And yes, I guess you could say I'm a bit nerdy as my interests have always run towards books and such, and not to drinking or outdoors activities.

To me there's nothing wrong with this lifestyle: As an asexual I reject the notion that I must conform to the mainstream lifestyle of "hookup culture" (which is exaggerated among sexual people anyway), but as a human being I also reject "drinking culture" (where people go out every weekend, sit around and drink... ew), and "sports culture" (I just find watching sports boring, although it is okay once in a while for recreational activities). I think I have a good and interesting life... more so than if I were a stereotypical family man or "bro". Those alternatives seem horrifying.

Overall, it's just interesting how people use Japan (a foreign country far away) as a "safe" outlet to judge certain lifestyles. Except for nathan here not many people really know about Japan. They may or may not have a problem, that's up for them to decide, but how we react to this story is mostly about us.
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« Reply #51 on: October 30, 2013, 01:43:27 AM »

Here is another rebuttal to some of the statistics cited from self-report online surveys in the original Guardian article.  I don't know how reliable the data on frequency of sex in this rebuttal piece is either, but there are some interesting and pertinent observations under "Mistake 5" and the section "So, What Was the Real Problem?"

http://www.yutaaoki.com/blog/top5-mistakes-journalists-make-about-sexless-japan


Having lived in Japan for a year and a half, I found the sexual attitudes there all over the map, from rather pronounced lack of interest in sex to a fair amount of overindulgence in sex.  The urban centers in particular have quite overtly sexualized cultures.  There are certainly people who have various kinds of sexual phobias there, as the original Guardian article showed, but I see no reason to believe that this is either unique to Japan or responsible in any significant way for other issues that are more major.  Two of them do seem to be the interrelated problems of the ominous and looming consequences of the low birth rate and the increasing reluctance of young people, many women but slowly increasing numbers of young and often alienated men too, to marry (somewhere between one in six to seven Japanese women now never marry).  There are complex reasons for that which I doubt can be reduced or attributed to any one overriding factor, but gender issues, more often of modern than traditional forms, and how these play out in terms of a number of economic and social incentives, certainly should rank highly in any reasonable assessment.
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« Reply #52 on: October 30, 2013, 01:23:05 PM »

I blame yaoi.

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