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Grumpier Than Uncle Joe
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« on: October 08, 2009, 10:42:17 AM »

Let me know if it works out for ya.......lol.

10 Tips for Approaching Single Women

Most guys get caught up in guessing what to say; here's what they really should do


By dating coach David Wygant
 
Updated: Oct 6, 2009


 What do you do when you see a woman you are attracted to? Do you run and hide? Do you use some canned line that you read on the Internet? Do you stand there in fear trying to think of the right thing to say? What is the right thing to do?

When approaching a woman, most guys make the mistake of thinking too much about what to say. They believe there's one magic line that will work in all situations. They rehearse this magic line, and when they deliver it, they hope the woman will become instantly attracted to them.

Unfortunately, rarely does this approach work -- because most of what you say is irrelevant. To catch a woman's attention, it is all about the confidence you display when approaching her.
Here are 10 surefire ways to intrigue her every time:

1. Observe something. Make a comment about something you observe in the environment. This is especially effective at the grocery store. For example, if she is ordering a turkey sandwich, ask her if the turkey is good here.
Make your comment immediate to the situation
Make your comment immediate to the situation and it will seem perfectly natural. No matter where you are, there is always something interesting to comment on.

2. Smile. This shows her that you are friendly and confident. A genuine smile not only feels good to you, but will put her at ease while creating openness in the interaction -- a requirement for building rapport.

3. Do not hesitate. If you hesitate in your approach, this tells her that you are not feeling confident -- an immediate turn-off. When you see her, walk over to her within a short period of time (the three-second rule). Show her you are a man who knows what he wants and goes after it.

4. Positive body language. If you approach hunched over with your head down, you are sending negative information about yourself, which makes you dead in the water before you begin. Stand up straight, with shoulders back and chest out, and use a firm yet relaxed walk.

5. Not too fast. If you walk over too fast, you could likely trigger her internal alarm. A calm, casual approach is usually the best way to make her feel at ease with you.

6. Keep eye contact. Never be the first to break eye contact when you approach. If you do, this sends the message that you are not feeling good about approaching. When you use strong eye contact, she will feel more drawn to you. With practice, you can master this.

7. Listen up. Make sure you pay careful attention to what she says. Do not have your response pre-thought out. Women love a man who pays attention to the details of what she says. If you start throwing out random words, she will lose interest fast.

8. Do not fidget. Fidgeting after you approach is distracting and shows you are uncomfortable. If you communicate that you are uncomfortable, she will feel uncomfortable, too, and will close up. Practice being aware of your movements. Pay attention to those movements, or lack of movements, that communicate comfort and confidence.

9. Lighten your tone of voice. The tone of your voice is a very powerful tool. Approaching her in a light and playful tone is one of the best ways to start. You could also begin in a serious tone, accusing her of something like "
I hope you saved some turkey for me
I hope you saved some turkey for me," followed by a quick smile to let her know you are joking. Practice playing with your vocal tone with your friends -- notice the different reactions you get when you say the exact same thing using varied tones and fluctuations.

10. Lean away from her. A man who leans in too far when he talks often makes a woman feel crowded. A better approach is to lean away from her slightly. This lets her know that you respect her space, boundaries, and are comfortable with yourself.

The key to making these tips work for you is putting them into practice! Practice these tips and see the reaction you get. When you put them all together, you will be surprised at their power
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« Reply #1 on: October 08, 2009, 10:45:03 AM »

But, how can I control my anger and trust issues, which always get me into trouble? All of these tips are pretty common knowledge.
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« Reply #2 on: October 08, 2009, 11:19:44 AM »

Actually, this is what works for me kids...


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« Reply #3 on: October 08, 2009, 12:54:09 PM »

the dating scene just hasn't been the same since roofies started turning drinks blue
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« Reply #4 on: October 08, 2009, 01:26:26 PM »

so if i follow these steps any girl i want will have sex with me?
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« Reply #5 on: October 08, 2009, 01:28:08 PM »

so if i follow these steps any girl i want will have sex with me?

Hey I saw it on Yahoo and posted for you guys so it must be true, right?  Roll Eyes
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« Reply #6 on: October 08, 2009, 04:49:03 PM »

can we move up from first grade. Everyone knows this!!! I thought this was gonna be good. Angry
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« Reply #7 on: October 08, 2009, 04:52:24 PM »

can we move up from first grade. Everyone knows this!!! I thought this was gonna be good. Angry


Annie, the mentality of half these kids here IS FIRST GRADE!!!  Wink   Everyone knows this!!! Tongue
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« Reply #8 on: October 08, 2009, 07:53:24 PM »

I found out in my line of work, women will want you just because of what you are, which caused much consternation with my previous girlfriend.

I met my current girlfriend after she saw one of my shows. So, my advice to any guy would be: "Be funny. It doesn't matter how ugly or fat you are if you can make her laugh".
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« Reply #9 on: October 08, 2009, 08:25:00 PM »

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K6wi81qEDo4

that video has all the answers
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« Reply #10 on: October 08, 2009, 08:44:48 PM »

Thanks, but I have no problems in my love life. Good advice, though.

3. Do not hesitate. If you hesitate in your approach, this tells her that you are not feeling confident -- an immediate turn-off. When you see her, walk over to her within a short period of time (the three-second rule). Show her you are a man who knows what he wants and goes after it.


Bad at this. Sad
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« Reply #11 on: October 08, 2009, 09:54:45 PM »

Uhhh... those are things you should do when talking to anybody. Even I, a very socially inept person, know those things.
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« Reply #12 on: October 08, 2009, 10:57:43 PM »

Uhhh... those are things you should do when talking to anybody. Even I, a very socially inept person, know those things.
Of course you know these things. The execution is the problem.
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« Reply #13 on: October 09, 2009, 01:06:08 AM »

First impressions are everything in every part of life.
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« Reply #14 on: October 09, 2009, 04:39:32 AM »

the mentality of half these kids here IS FIRST GRADE!!!  Wink   Everyone knows this!!! Tongue

JS just proved that.... right in this topic no less. Tongue

I found out in my line of work, women will want you just because of what you are, which caused much consternation with my previous girlfriend.

I met my current girlfriend after she saw one of my shows. So, my advice to any guy would be: "Be funny. It doesn't matter how ugly or fat you are if you can make her laugh".

Doc!! Welcome back dude. Smiley
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« Reply #15 on: October 09, 2009, 02:15:48 PM »

I tried all of these tips on this hot girl at the deli counter, but my wife kept slapping me.  Sad

bro cant get a break is all im sayin
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