Update Thread and Other Ramblings by BushOklahoma

[Joe Biden 2020]

BushOK...you don't happen to be related to Mike Naso, do you?

Nope.  Not related... Anyway, the date went great and we decided to go a hole-in-the-wall type diner in NE Oklahoma County in the town of Jones.  We came back and played a couple games of UNO and then talked with her mother for a little while and watched the end of LOST season premier.  Friday, we're thinking about going to see a movie together, do something different for us.

[Joe Republic]

Anyway, the date went great and we decided to go a hole-in-the-wall

Wow, things are moving fast.

[The Mikado]

BushOK...you don't happen to be related to Mike Naso, do you?

Nope.  Not related... Anyway, the date went great and we decided to go a hole-in-the-wall type diner in NE Oklahoma County in the town of Jones.  We came back and played a couple games of UNO and then talked with her mother for a little while and watched the end of LOST season premier.  Friday, we're thinking about going to see a movie together, do something different for us.

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If it's working for you, I'm happy.  Are you still on your militant G-or-PG-rated movie fixation?  What would you see?

[Fmr. Pres. Duke]

You can go see avatar and cover your eyes for the bad parts.

[King]

BushOK...you don't happen to be related to Mike Naso, do you?

Nope.  Not related... Anyway, the date went great and we decided to go a hole-in-the-wall type diner in NE Oklahoma County in the town of Jones.  We came back and played a couple games of UNO and then talked with her mother for a little while and watched the end of LOST season premier.  Friday, we're thinking about going to see a movie together, do something different for us.

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If it's working for you, I'm happy.  Are you still on your militant G-or-PG-rated movie fixation?  What would you see?

Only PG if he has parental guidance to go with them.  And MAYBE PG-13 after 13 years of marriage.

[Swing low, sweet chariot. Comin' for to carry me home.]

BushOK...you don't happen to be related to Mike Naso, do you?

Nope.  Not related... Anyway, the date went great and we decided to go a hole-in-the-wall type diner in NE Oklahoma County in the town of Jones.  We came back and played a couple games of UNO and then talked with her mother for a little while and watched the end of LOST season premier.  Friday, we're thinking about going to see a movie together, do something different for us.

sincerely, I'm glad you two had a good time.

[TeePee4Prez]

Light dinner and games are on the agenda for tomorrow night.

Sex games?  (Or is that all part of 'light dinner'?)

Haha, no, I'm talking about UNO and other board/card games.  We have made it a commitment early on that we will not h  ave sex until if and when we are married.

C'mon Bushie you're a cooter hound,  you can't wait that long.

Know what?  I think he's doing the right thing.  Seriously.  Well kinda.  Just like those Viagra commercials- If the moment is right, do it.  Not good to set deadlines or restrictions.

[J-Mann]

BushOK...you don't happen to be related to Mike Naso, do you?

Nope.  Not related... Anyway, the date went great and we decided to go a hole-in-the-wall type diner in NE Oklahoma County in the town of Jones.  We came back and played a couple games of UNO and then talked with her mother for a little while and watched the end of LOST season premier.  Friday, we're thinking about going to see a movie together, do something different for us.

Well, that sounds like you had a perfectly nice evening. I won't lie ... it seems like it's a bit early to be meeting her mom, but given that you've known each other for 18 months or so, it's an offense I can overlook

I would, however, recommend AGAINST seeing a movie in a theater this Friday, unless you want to be totally clichéd and spend most of your date not talking to each other. If you want to do something different, cook dinner together and then watch a well-known movie at either your place or her's ... that way you can spend some time working together and then do the movie thing without feeling the pressure to pay TOO much attention to it.

[Grumpier Than Uncle Joe]

Light dinner and games are on the agenda for tomorrow night.

Sex games?  (Or is that all part of 'light dinner'?)

Haha, no, I'm talking about UNO and other board/card games.  We have made it a commitment early on that we will not h  ave sex until if and when we are married.

C'mon Bushie you're a cooter hound,  you can't wait that long.

Know what?  I think he's doing the right thing.  Seriously.  Well kinda.  Just like those Viagra commercials- If the moment is right, do it.  Not good to set deadlines or restrictions.

Don't bullsh**t me Flyers, Bushie is getting more than you ever did.

[TeePee4Prez]

Light dinner and games are on the agenda for tomorrow night.

Sex games?  (Or is that all part of 'light dinner'?)

Haha, no, I'm talking about UNO and other board/card games.  We have made it a commitment early on that we will not h  ave sex until if and when we are married.

C'mon Bushie you're a cooter hound,  you can't wait that long.

Know what?  I think he's doing the right thing.  Seriously.  Well kinda.  Just like those Viagra commercials- If the moment is right, do it.  Not good to set deadlines or restrictions.

Don't bullsh**t me Flyers, Bushie is getting more than you ever did.

Did?  Probably not.  Now?  Definitely.  Hey, I never coughed up 2 rings to get any though.  BTW my date last Saturday was a disaster.  Not calling her nor has she called me since.  She was my age 29 and she must have dressed like she was 45 and I'm not talking about the Cougar with f--k me boots either.

Though my friend is busting my balls over setting the Guinness Book of Records for unsuccessful 1st dates.  I maybe looking at the triple digits before I hit 30.  I believe in the law of averages and man do I ever have to play it. 

[Fmr. Pres. Duke]

Finish whatever you start, son. You're the best lookin' crime fighter since myself.

[TeePee4Prez]

Finish whatever you start, son. You're the best lookin' crime fighter since myself.

No way dude.  This girl didn't even try to establish any chemistry, was boring, and dressed like an old woman.  Then at 11 Saturday night, she had to go home because she was tired then I went to a bar to meetup with friends.  I've had better and I'm not wasting my time with her.  She would have had to blow me in the parking lot for me to even give her another chance.  I even tried to kiss her and she acted weird.  She wasn't terrible looking, but no frigging way will I call her.

[Joe Biden 2020]

Finish whatever you start, son. You're the best lookin' crime fighter since myself.

No way dude.  This girl didn't even try to establish any chemistry, was boring, and dressed like an old woman.  Then at 11 Saturday night, she had to go home because she was tired then I went to a bar to meetup with friends.  I've had better and I'm not wasting my time with her.  She would have had to blow me in the parking lot for me to even give her another chance.  I even tried to kiss her and she acted weird.  She wasn't terrible looking, but no frigging way will I call her.

On the FIRST DATE?  C'mon man, even I don't do that.  Of all the things I did with Tiffanye, I never kissed her.  And, Susan has only pecked me on the cheek, that's it.

Don't try to kiss on the first date.  The kiss needs to be meaningful for both of you, not because it sounds like a good idea at the time.

[TeePee4Prez]

Finish whatever you start, son. You're the best lookin' crime fighter since myself.

No way dude.  This girl didn't even try to establish any chemistry, was boring, and dressed like an old woman.  Then at 11 Saturday night, she had to go home because she was tired then I went to a bar to meetup with friends.  I've had better and I'm not wasting my time with her.  She would have had to blow me in the parking lot for me to even give her another chance.  I even tried to kiss her and she acted weird.  She wasn't terrible looking, but no frigging way will I call her.

On the FIRST DATE?  C'mon man, even I don't do that.  Of all the things I did with Tiffanye, I never kissed her.  And, Susan has only pecked me on the cheek, that's it.

Don't try to kiss on the first date.  The kiss needs to be meaningful for both of you, not because it sounds like a good idea at the time.

I've had sex on the 1st date.  Kissing is nothing.

[TeePee4Prez]

Of course, I would never do it again on the 1st date.  Didn't end well.

[Mint]

[Filuwaúrdjan]

In the off chance that any women are reading this thread... I would like to apologise on behalf of the entire forum.

[Psychic Octopus]

Best. Thread. Ever.

[Sensei]

Finish whatever you start, son. You're the best lookin' crime fighter since myself.

No way dude.  This girl didn't even try to establish any chemistry, was boring, and dressed like an old woman.  Then at 11 Saturday night, she had to go home because she was tired then I went to a bar to meetup with friends.  I've had better and I'm not wasting my time with her.  She would have had to blow me in the parking lot for me to even give her another chance.  I even tried to kiss her and she acted weird.  She wasn't terrible looking, but no frigging way will I call her.

On the FIRST DATE?  C'mon man, even I don't do that.  Of all the things I did with Tiffanye, I never kissed her.  And, Susan has only pecked me on the cheek, that's it.

Don't try to kiss on the first date.  The kiss needs to be meaningful for both of you, not because it sounds like a good idea at the time.

Guy. I think I made out with my date on my first ever date. When I was 13. And what an awkward, painful experience it must have been for all involved.

[memphis]

No kissing on the first date? What is this, Mayberry?

[Psychic Octopus]

On another note, the Reverend got busy in the bathroom, according to Joe.

Is that blasphemy?

[Joe Biden 2020]

Tomorrow night's date has been moved to Saturday as I am celebrating my Dad's 58th birthday tomorrow night.  His birthday isn't actually until Wednesday, but we'll celebrate it tomorrow night, because next weekend is, of course, Valentine's Day.  I'm thinking about making Saturday a date day, rather than a date night.  I'm wanting to take her to an afternoon matinee and then to a benefit Spaghetti Dinner that my church is hosting for a couple in the church.  I'll see if she wants to do that.

[J-Mann]

No kissing on the first date? What is this, Mayberry?

^^^^^^^^^^^^

However, I get the general point of what BushOK is saying -- physical intimacy (of any kind) on the first date may say something about your intentions for going on the date in the first place. Not kissing is extreme though. People who are going to be in a relationship need to connect on various levels -- physical attraction is one of those levels.

And with that being said, I prefer sex on the first date (for more reasons than JUST the physical aspect of it). That's easier to accomplish with men than with women, though.

[Grumpier Than Uncle Joe]

Best. Thread. Ever.

[TeePee4Prez]

No kissing on the first date? What is this, Mayberry?

^^^^^^^^^^^^

However, I get the general point of what BushOK is saying -- physical intimacy (of any kind) on the first date may say something about your intentions for going on the date in the first place. Not kissing is extreme though. People who are going to be in a relationship need to connect on various levels -- physical attraction is one of those levels.

And with that being said, I prefer sex on the first date (for more reasons than JUST the physical aspect of it). That's easier to accomplish with men than with women, though.

One issue I can see with women willing to have sex on the 1st date is, they're willing to do it with other dudes just as easily.  I noticed one woman had a lot of new men on her MySpace in a very short period of time and most of her activity with comments were with female friends.  This was of course someone I met on match.com.  She ditched me for one of these other guys within a month.  Not good.