none of those constitute rape, otherwise I could have pressed charges against several girls in my past....also she had willingly put out for him before
I'm pretty sure that having intercourse with someone who is unconscious is rape. There may be various legally mitigating factors, like whether he was aware of what he was doing, but it is still rape because she couldn't consent.
As far as what you've done in the past, public awareness of what constitutes rape or not has come a long way in the last several decades.
That said, I make no claims about how this plays with the public.