My apologies, it wasn't my intention to start a debate on such issues. I didn't say anything about the meaning of being a gay and in my opinion it has a meaning, other personality matters have also a meaning. So, sorry. My intention was only to explain my vote.
PS: On the other hand I understand "sexuality" is a broader concept than "sexual orientation" and this is the reason why I mentioned "personality". I don't want to create misunderstandings so, if you think that is not appropiate I'll delete that part and problem solved.
The thread is entitled "sexuality" so it's entirely appropriate to discuss sexuality. Don't let anyone bully you here just because you have your own thoughts.