As I said, 2004 was also all about OH. If Kerry won OH he would have won the election, even if it was a PV/EV split. And if you look at the OH polls from mid October 2004 Kerry was actually ahead in more of than than Bush.
http://www.realclearpolitics.com/Presidential_04/oh_polls.htmlSo you could say that Kerry was actually doing better than Romney as he was able to show an EV advantage, something Romney has never been able to do in either of his surges (after RNC and after Debate 1). Romney has only lead one OH poll in October and that was Gravis right after the first debate.
RE: 1980
Not really even worth discussing. Different era, different electorate, different economy, different approvals, Romney not Reagan, etc, etc. Even if Romney wins, it wont be a 1980 parallel. It will still be a 2004 parallel, except with the challenger winning, which almost happened.