bollocks.
I like JL I remember TC calling me in the eighth grade when he was shot, and I've lit more than one candle to his memory at Strawberry Fields, but it's total garbage. You may not believe this, but there are straight guys who do not see their women as their ns.
I call BS on this sentiment. FWIW, I've been in a band, and I know what it's like to have one of your members being pressured by his bitch--read: bitch, not n--to put certain words and lyrics in songs. I've even had to change the name of a band to suit a member's girlfriend. No shit! Show me one n that can do that, and I'll show you an apology.