So non gayz shouldn't view gay male couples as monogomous?
There are plenty of gays (such as myself) who want committed, monogamous relationships. That's true now more than ever, especially now that the "traditional" route is becoming open to us.
At the same time, there are plenty of gays who don't feel confined to the "traditional relationship." We're individuals, after all, not a homogeneous group.
And, let's not fool ourselves, there is plenty of straight people whose life is one-night stands after one-night stands.
It's just than the acceptance of such bevahiour isn't the same in the gay community than in the "staight community".
A man having sex with a different man every night is seen as normal.
A man having sex with a different woman every night is usually publically disapproved, but quite faintly.
A woman having sex with a different man every night is shamed, insulted, ostracised.