Am I the only one who is rather shocked that some people have had over 50 sexual partners or so, or is this some major troll? I'm on 9 or so and I thought that was a lot.
Response bias; most of those who answered "no" in the poll have had far less than that. The only people who feel compelled to state their number are those who feel like they have something to brag about.
I've no idea of a number, nor do I see it as anything to 'brag' about. I simply haven't any interest in keeping track of a number. I can only think of one benefit of a high number - the good ones are so rare that you may need to sift through quite a lot of chaff to find what you're looking for..
I obviously was referring to the fact that men will have sex immediately if it is offered, while women usually take a few days or weeks at least (months or years in some cultures) to decide to do so. There's no 'rant' here - this is accepted truth by 90% of the population.
Admitting that commonplaces are often based on reality -an exaggerate simplification of reality-, it's not impossible that a man rejects a sexual offer nor it's so strange that a woman proposes going to bed with you immediately. I have enough to have seen and/or experienced similar situations. The fact that 90% of the times it works like the commonplace says doesn't mean that love always ride the same car model, and sometimes goes by motorcycle.
A better analogy would be the one about the gas pedal being on the right and the brake being on the left... perhaps it isn't
always so, but you'd be well advised to act as if it were always so, or you'll have an accident.