Do you have a plan for your life?

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Until recently I've had general goals that didn't have a strict timeline to be reached (save money, move to Australia, marry my fiance, find a job, move into our own place). I've done those things despite never having a strict timeline. Now, though, I'm without direction because I didn't plan this far ahead. Does anyone? Here's where I am now:

- Education: I am aware that I should probably return to school in order to focus on something with which I would aim to build a career. What that is, I have no idea. And I feel like time is running out for me to choose what I would like to do and then find a place to employ me in it.

- Career: Similar story. I have achieved a small status within the company that I work but don't see a path further anytime soon without specialization in things I'm not really interested in despite a potential. That is, I may be good at things I'm not keen on doing forever because they may pay the bills. Do I invest my time in them or let my current career path stagnate?

- Marriage: Already married and satisfied.

- Kids: Don't appeal to me or my partner whatsoever. It's not something we seriously consider.

I have never actually thought through where I'd like to be in X years time. I am just floating along at this point and trying to find direction. But this whole idea of having a full plan for ones life fascinates me. Who has specific goals? How are you going meeting them?