She's correct.
I would also be severely pissed if I got a black child, when my partner and I in fact wanted a white one.
That's like going to the tech store to buy a MacBook and the salesperson brings a Sony VAIO.
Of course there are some people out who actually badly wanted to buy the MacBook and taking the Sony VAIO with them "because they don't mind".
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Nonetheless, because the small black child is a human being and not a PC, I wouldn't treat it any other than if the sperm bank worked correctly and a white kid was born.
Still, the sperm bank made an error and needs to pay for it.
You seriously are comparing this to buying computers? That's silly. And if somebody wants a child, it really shouldn't matter what color the child is, a child is a child.
No it's not.
And that's not the point here. The point is that the sperm bank made the silly mistake. Of course, the girl should be raised no different than the planned white girl - but the mistake makes it very complicated.
And besides, you seem to be one of these people who would take the Sony VAIO home, instead of the product you actually wanted all the time ...
I'm pretty sure a child is a human regardless of race, that was my point. The sperm bank made a mistake, that much is clear, but even with a settlement, these parents have to accept the child and move forward. Children don't come from stores, you can't exchange them or get a refund.
Not sure why you're making that point when Tender said exactly the same thing.