As pointed out plenty times already, "misandry" is not a real thing that happens, even among the more strident and less-reflective SJWs; neither does "anti-theism" (certainly not in the fedora sense!); the charge of reverse racism can't be dispatched in one sentence but is pretty tendentious as well and– I would argue– rests on a fundamental misunderstanding of what racism is and how it interacts with power
"Reverse racism" is obviously a silly term and many accusations of "misandry" are just paranoia from MRAs with a bad persecution complex (a bit redundant, really ), but I do hope you aren't swallowing the "privilege+power" thing uncritically--while definitely nothing compared to, say, state violence against African Americans, genuine hatred against whites, and especially white men (or at the very least a hatred of male sexuality), is commonplace. The neurotic reformism of privilege politics is both nearly religious (the treatment of privilege as some sort of original sin) and, due to its lack of material analysis or at best shoehorning a half-hearted material analysis into liberal academic platitudes, it ultimately fails to either fully explain the existing power structures or to offer greater solutions beyond the occasional crusade against a Hawaiian shirt or a few sexist trolls.
I don't know that there's anything I'm willing to swallow uncritically; if anything my approach to things suffers from an excess of navel-gazing and self-doubt and that of course applies to this issue as well as others.
As for the rest of it... well, let's just say that I don't agree with your contention that "reformism" is a bad thing in the first place, and I'll take liberal academia over dialectical materialism anyday. But you already knew that.
I politically Identify as a Marxist. Ever since I was a boy I dreamed of soaring over the internets dropping big sage truths on disgusting liberals. People say to me that a bourgeoisie being a Marxist is Impossible and I'm ing retarded but I don't care, I'm proletariat. I'm having Jacobin and Counterpunch install dialectical materialism, the history of the struggle of the workers, and an anthology of Wikipedia into my brain. From now on I want you guys to call me "Snowstalker" and respect my right to post sage truths and ramble needlessly. If you can't accept me you're a Marxophobe and need to check your capitalist privilege. Thank you for being so understanding.
~A Proud Marxist