Your Sexuality and Gender Identity?

[Californiadreaming]

In regards to my own sexuality (sexual orientation), I am slightly bisexual but with an overwhelming preference for women. Basically, I can certainly be sexually aroused to certain men's bodies but not that much to men's faces and even a handsome man's body certainly isn't going to be comparable to a woman's body, in my honest opinion.

As for my own gender identity, I guess you can say that I lean cisgender.  To elaborate on this, I identify as male but I certainly don't like many/most of the effects that male puberty has had on both my body and my face. Thus, once I will be able to afford it, I certainly want to strongly feminize both my body and my face (while still identifying as male, of course). Also, I am certainly an aspiring transvestic fetishist and an aspiring transvestite and I certainly want to try out estrogen HRT in order to see whether or not I will like it.

Thus, in summation, I am a bit of an enigma, aren't I?

[Californiadreaming]

Also, Yes, in terms of race, I am White.

[Californiadreaming]

Trans lesbian

If we lived in an ideal world (we certainly and unfortunately don't!), I would certainly envy you a lot!

[Californiadreaming]

Bisexual trans girl.

If you don't mind me asking, do you prefer men or women?

[Californiadreaming]

Bisexual trans girl.

If you don't mind me asking, do you prefer men or women?

It's honestly like 50/50.

OK.

Also, though, if you are curious, the corresponding figure/data for me is probably around 95% female and 5% male.

[Californiadreaming]

Trans lesbian.

I actually agree that 'cisgender' is an aesthetically displeasing word and prefer to use 'non-trans' unless somebody has already introduced 'cisgender' into the conversation.

Out of curiosity--if you don't mind me asking, is there a different name that you want us to refer to you by?

After all, no offense, but as far as I know, Nathan is a masculine name--which in turn is why exactly I am asking you this question.

[Californiadreaming]

Trans lesbian.

I actually agree that 'cisgender' is an aesthetically displeasing word and prefer to use 'non-trans' unless somebody has already introduced 'cisgender' into the conversation.

Out of curiosity--if you don't mind me asking, is there a different name that you want us to refer to you by?

After all, no offense, but as far as I know, Nathan is a masculine name--which in turn is why exactly I am asking you this question.

At the time, Madeleine (sp?). But see also:

It's true that I feel confused and discern a cognitive dissonance inhabiting a male role as well but at this point the balance has fallen rather on the side of 'being a man' (cue Mulan music) for the moment.

Thanks!

Also, out of curiosity: @Nathan: Would "genderqueer" be a good term to describe you?

[Californiadreaming]

cis hetero male

There seems to be more transgender women than cisgender women here interestingly.

Frankly, this forum isn't the only one for which this statement of yours appears to be true.