Also I like this point I made elsewhere arguing with someone about how hardcore scene music is so much more progressive: Has any metal band ever had a song about feeling guilty for staring at a girl's ass?
I usually forget Atlas within 2 seconds of logging off, but this post was so awful it has nagged at the back of my brain for weeks.
If a guy blatantly stares at a girl's ass while he is with another woman, that's insulting to his date and a douche move. If it is done in such an overt lecherous way as to make the recipient uncomfortable, that's even more dickish. It would also be rather shallow and self-absorbed to do so while one's own significant other is sick in bed, or giving birth (saw a guy checking a nurse's backside hard as his girlfriend was being wheeled into the maternity ward---toolwaffle)
Beyond those exceptions though, it is the height of weeniedom to actually feel guilty for checking out a woman's body.
The height of weeniedom, except to feel compelled to write a song over such ass-glimpsing guilt is somehow far, far worse. The nadir of pussydom. There, I said it.