As a Republican, I wish we had the same system the Dems did, except with more superdelegates.
I don't have a huge problem with it.
A political party by definition consists not only of its supporters in the electorate (the voters), but also the party's elected officials in government (as well as the party as an organization). I don't think its fundamentally wrong for that other aspect of the party to have a say in the presidential nominating process.
Maybe fewer, but this overall.
Completely agree with both of you.