However, I have no time for people who don't think that "body shaming" is a problem. Maybe they haven't spent a lot of time with women because they are virgins but, as a matter of fact, a number of pathologies associated with body shaming are major problems for women. Men can't wrap their heads around "anorexia" or whatever because we aren't subject to strict standards. I suggest that you make an effort to understand this stuff though.
While I totally agree with the bottom line of your post, men
are subject to certain "body standards" (though perhaps a US/Europe difference might be at play here), albeit certainly less strict than for women, and quite some men do "understand" anorexia -- or even have it.