Sorry, Mr. Khan, but you're full of crap. When you take your Gold Star Family status into the partisan political arena, you cannot reasonably expect to be reacted to in a deferential and uncritical manner.
The condition of Muslim women is a worldwide Human Rights issue. This is neither a secret, nor poorly documented. Trump gets under people's skins because he exposes hypocrisy after hypocrisy, and one hypocrisy this has exposed is the alliance between Sharia Law advocates and the Feminist Left within the Democratic Party. The Feminist/Misoginyst alliance here is one of the ways the Democrats play "The Enemy of my Enemy is my Friend".
It's largely an issue of culture tbh. Developing countries worldwide treat their women (and their citizens' in general) crappily. The way we can change it is not through hectoring, but tormenting change from within.