At this point, you are so involved in this argument that you sound more contemptuous toward LGBT rights than you have before. When not even the right wingers are backing you up on your concerns, that should've raised an alarm.
Right-wingers aren't backing Tonio up because we realize the hopelessness of the attempt to convince sjw activists that any position they disagree with might be based in something other than animus against them. But the issue he raised is clear enough. Where were the huge boycotts against states that didn't expand Medicaid like there were against states that maybe according to some interpretation of the law might allow a business or two to discriminate against gays?
I don't know which is more ridiculous: the idea that Antonio wants to send gays to the back of the bus, or quoting Ayn Rand and in the same breath calling TJ of all people an "economic nihilist."