Why there are so few female customers of male sex workers?

[buritobr]

This topic was mentioned in this thread https://uselectionatlas.org/FORUM/index.php?topic=263297.0 , but in order to not hijack, let's create another one for this specific topic.

In the heterosexual prostitution, more than 90% of the customers are male and more than 90% of the workers are female.

Why do so few women pay for sex?

[dead0man]

two reasons....
1.women can get laid whenever they want to....with some exceptions for age and ugliness
2.women want it less*



*that's not at all to say women don't want it....they very much do, but men are just stupid about it.  It's almost like evolution wired us to want to put our weeners in ladies or something.

[Antonio the Sixth]

Because men are socialized from a creepily young age to consider sex as something they are owed (along with so many other birthrights that society seems to think unfold from having a dick), while women are socialized from a creepily young age to not think much about sex (at best) or view it as something they owe to men (at worst).

That's just how patriarchy works.

[parochial boy]

harder for a man to get it up if he doesn't want to...

[Santander]

Tradition.

[Associate Justice PiT]

Because men are socialized from a creepily young age to consider sex as something they are owed (along with so many other birthrights that society seems to think unfold from having a dick), while women are socialized from a creepily young age to not think much about sex (at best) or view it as something they owe to men (at worst).

That's just how patriarchy works.

     That this line of reasoning is taken seriously in our universities is why the social sciences are mired in such an utterly degraded state. Just ignore the important biological factors, such as differing testosterone levels between the sexes and an evolutionary proclivity towards polygyny.

[Mopsus]

two reasons....
1.women can get laid whenever they want to....with some exceptions for age and ugliness
2.women want it less*



*that's not at all to say women don't want it....they very much do, but men are just stupid about it.  It's almost like evolution wired us to want to put our weeners in ladies or something.

Because men are socialized from a creepily young age to consider sex as something they are owed (along with so many other birthrights that society seems to think unfold from having a dick), while women are socialized from a creepily young age to not think much about sex (at best) or view it as something they owe to men (at worst).

That's just how patriarchy works.

I just wanted to say that this juxtaposition is hilarious.

[buritobr]

two reasons....
1.women can get laid whenever they want to....with some exceptions for age and ugliness
2.women want it less*



*that's not at all to say women don't want it....they very much do, but men are just stupid about it.  It's almost like evolution wired us to want to put our weeners in ladies or something.

The number of men and women is almost equal. Why do the women get laid more easily?

[buritobr]

while women are socialized from a creepily young age to not think much about sex (at best) or view it as something they owe to men (at worst).

But even women who grew in open minded places, where the values are modern, and were not socialized to not think much about sex or view it as something they owe to men, don't want to pay for the services of male sex workers.

[iamamiwhoami]

Because men are socialized from a creepily young age to consider sex as something they are owed (along with so many other birthrights that society seems to think unfold from having a dick), while women are socialized from a creepily young age to not think much about sex (at best) or view it as something they owe to men (at worst).

That's just how patriarchy works.

Um, where did you get this trashy info from? I for sure have never been told to not think about sex growing up.

[Santander]

Um, where did you get this trashy info from? I for sure have never been told to not think about sex growing up.

That is just what happens in his imagination. Tony doesn't actually know anything about women, or about people in general, for that matter.

[dead0man]

two reasons....
1.women can get laid whenever they want to....with some exceptions for age and ugliness
2.women want it less*



*that's not at all to say women don't want it....they very much do, but men are just stupid about it.  It's almost like evolution wired us to want to put our weeners in ladies or something.

The number of men and women is almost equal. Why do the women get laid more easily?

for the same reason they don't have to pay for drinks at the singles bar.  The same reason they don't tend to drive fast cars or play guitar or get competitive over stupid sh**t.  Yes, yes, there are always exceptions, but the trends are clear.  Sex is more important to dudes.  Again, that's not to say the ladies don't want it, they do, trust me</creepy>, just not as much as men.

'cause we different.


Shocking, I know.  But, it gets better.  Even different women are different.  Men too!  Some women want a big strong guy that does things with his hands, a nice smell and hair is a plus, but not a requirement.  Some women want a smart guy who tells witty jokes, dresses nice and goes to interesting places and couldn't care less that he can't change a tire and is a-scared of spiders.  Some even want dumb hunks of meat.  Some women want "it" all the time, and some never want it...we call those women "wives" herp derp.



....but this entire thread is weird to me unless you're a kid or this some kind of elaborate trap

[Associate Justice PiT]

I cant imagine any woman, no matter how ugly, having trouble getting laid. While there are some women who probably have male sugar babies, the vast majority could be deformed and get laid.

See relevant thread:

https://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=168948903

BEWARE...you will lose faith in the male species.

     That was genuinely disturbing.

[Antonio the Sixth]

while women are socialized from a creepily young age to not think much about sex (at best) or view it as something they owe to men (at worst).

But even women who grew in open minded places, where the values are modern, and were not socialized to not think much about sex or view it as something they owe to men, don't want to pay for the services of male sex workers.

The idea that nice modern educated open-minded social circles are devoid of sexist norms is ludicrous. If anything, this forum is the ultimate proof that you can be very "modern" and still hold on to sexist notions.

[This account no longer in use.]

Because men are socialized from a creepily young age to consider sex as something they are owed (along with so many other birthrights that society seems to think unfold from having a dick), while women are socialized from a creepily young age to not think much about sex (at best) or view it as something they owe to men (at worst).

That's just how patriarchy works.

I sure am glad you make posts like this whenever I come close to thinking you might actually be a decent poster

[Since I'm the mad scientist proclaimed by myself]

Because men are socialized from a creepily young age to consider sex as something they are owed (along with so many other birthrights that society seems to think unfold from having a dick), while women are socialized from a creepily young age to not think much about sex (at best) or view it as something they owe to men (at worst).

That's just how patriarchy works.

I sure am glad you make posts like this whenever I come close to thinking you might actually be a decent poster

There are posts Antonio makes that are bad. That, my friend, is not one of them.

[Since I'm the mad scientist proclaimed by myself]

Because men are socialized from a creepily young age to consider sex as something they are owed (along with so many other birthrights that society seems to think unfold from having a dick), while women are socialized from a creepily young age to not think much about sex (at best) or view it as something they owe to men (at worst).

That's just how patriarchy works.

Um, where did you get this trashy info from? I for sure have never been told to not think about sex growing up.

For one thing, "socialized" is a lot more subtle then some dude telling you not to think about sex.

[politicallefty]

I don't know why I bother responding to a topic like this, since there is no winning for posting what you believe to be the truth.

I think men by nature have a higher sex drive than women. It makes sense from a biological standpoint. Men have something and they have an urge to put it somewhere. It's not a result of patriarchy or anti-feminist thought. If you want to put it this way, is there a lesbian/bisexual woman version of Grindr? I'd also imagine a significant number of straight-identifying men in heterosexual relationships have attempted to have a same-sex encounter. For many men, it really is just about sex.

I'd make a bet right now that the number of same-sex one night stands between males outnumbers females by an exponential number. If you're a man that wants to have sex with another man, you don't even have to snap your fingers. If you're a woman that wants to have sex with another woman, I'd imagine it's much harder.

[tik 🪀✨]

I don't know why I bother responding to a topic like this, since there is no winning for posting what you believe to be the truth.

there is never any winning of an argument when all you have are only "beliefs" *sage*

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men *do* have, by nature, a higher sex drive than women. your followup on why is weird and has circular reasoning and I could make fun of you for it very easily, but I suppose we are here so I'll just sigh and zip on to the simple fact that testosterone is the main component of sex drive and men have much more than women (although women always have at least some). this can explain a great deal of the differences between why men are hornier than women, but of course it cannot explain everything. and it's complicated. everything is complicated forever. it's rough.

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probably! I can't imagine why you wouldn't be keen to it, though

also, can we dispel with this fiction that any woman who wants to have sex can just find a guy without really trying? it's a weird, dumb trope.

[HAnnA MArin County]

..because most male sex workers are gay? Lol

[Orthogonian Society Treasurer]

Because men are socialized from a creepily young age to consider sex as something they are owed (along with so many other birthrights that society seems to think unfold from having a dick), while women are socialized from a creepily young age to not think much about sex (at best) or view it as something they owe to men (at worst).

That's just how patriarchy works.

Um, where did you get this trashy info from? I for sure have never been told to not think about sex growing up.

You don't remember your first grade teacher screaming at you to never think about sex? You must have repressed it, it's a core part of the curriculum.

[politicallefty]

there is never any winning of an argument when all you have are only "beliefs" *sage*

That wasn't really my point there and I think you know that.

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Once again, my previous point stands. That was in part a lame attempt at humour, although the argument still stands. This forum has a fairly prudish streak (even amongst the left) that I disagree with, hence my previous post. If a man is at least a Kinsey 1, he has the means to satisfy sexual urges with ease.

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And yet you can't come up with an example. My point was not that a woman can't easily find another woman for a "one-night stand". However, it's far easier for a man to do so. Do you really not think it's easier for a man to find and have sex than a woman (regardless of their sexual orientation)?

[DavidB.]

Because men are socialized from a creepily young age to consider sex as something they are owed (along with so many other birthrights that society seems to think unfold from having a dick), while women are socialized from a creepily young age to not think much about sex (at best) or view it as something they owe to men (at worst).

That's just how patriarchy works.

Do you really believe this?

[Sir Mohamed]

Because most women can get much easier without paying barring the possibility that they're very unattractive.

Naturally males (humans and animals) have to apply to females, who select their partner.

However, I wouldn't say women want it less in general (but some studies showed that women aged about 40 want it more than younger ones), but they usually prefer to have a deep relationship with a partner. Men are different; often, not always, they more care about looks and attractiveness.

[SUSAN CRUSHBONE]

because men, unlike women, are easily replaceäble by inanimate objects