Gay Marriage: sixteen states' different takes.

[Platypus]

Again, gay activists have done a great job of making people they will be labeled homophobic

Actually, 'homophobic' is a term used primarily by and generally chosen to describe someone by the mainstream media. Most 'gay rights' activists prefer the term heterocentric or, for more extreme cases, non-hetero intolerant. Personally, I think both these terms, especially the latter, are a bit weak, but still, homophobic is on the way out.