Sexless love or loveless sex?

[dead0man]

You have to pick one and it lasts for the rest of your life.  go

[RI]

Define sex.

I will go with sexless love.

[dead0man]

Define sex.

Normally (but not limited to) genital stimulation until climax.

[RI]

Define sex.

Normally (but not limited to) genital stimulation until climax.

A pretty harsh fate, but nevertheless, I stand by my answer unabashedly.

There is no higher, more noble human endeavor than the pursuit of love. Love is selfless and altruistic; it thinks not of its own benefit, but for the benefit of others. Only through love can we find true, lasting fulfillment.

Sex may leave you with a momentary pleasure, but love goes on forever. Once you have loved, you can never go back. You are eternally changed for the better.

If you had the choice between having a continous stream of brief, fleeting moments of pleasure or a lifetime of perpetual fulfillment of the highest order, there simply is no contest.

[Eraserhead]

loveless sex, obviously.

[dead0man]

Define sex.

Normally (but not limited to) genital stimulation until climax.

Pretty harsh

Only if you're doing it right.

[Gustaf]

Assuming we mean "romantic" love, sexless love sounds like somthing which would eventually eat away at you.

[dead0man]

As a married man I've already found sexless love, thus I'm forced to pick loveless sex.

[k-onmmunist]

Loveless sex.

[tik 🪀✨]

Can you still wank?

[Keystone Phil]

I'm surprised that my answer is doing so well. I guess the BRTD's of the forum haven't come out in full force yet.

[Psychic Octopus]

Difficult choice, but S-xless love. (It doesn't mean I can't have s-x on the side with someone else ) I would just have the relationship FDR had with Eleanor Roosevelt, love for each other, but no s-x.

[exopolitician]

Sexless love.

[tik 🪀✨]

Difficult choice, but S-xless love. (It doesn't mean I can't have s-x on the side with someone else ) I would just have the relationship FDR had with Eleanor Roosevelt, love for each other, but no s-x.

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[The Man From G.O.P.]

Loveless sex by a trillion miles, the only people who'll pick sexless love are.... you get the picture.

[Holmes]

I was gonna pick loveless sex until I realized that a lifetime of it would make a person very lonely.

[Torie]

loveless sex, obviously.

Ya, senseless love sounds like a living hell to me.

[RosettaStoned]

Love is something that people say they're in, so they can get laid. Then, they end up hurting eachother, because it was all based on lies to begin with.

[Keystone Phil]

loveless sex, obviously.

Ya, senseless love sounds like a living hell to me.

So love without sex is senseless?

Love is something that people say they're in, so they can get laid.

 

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And people that constantly have sex outside of a loving relationship are obviously immune from being hurt.

[RI]

Love is something that people say they're in, so they can get laid. Then, they end up hurting eachother, because it was all based on lies to begin with.

Obviously, you are missing the crucial distinction between love and 'in love'. The infatuation of being 'in love' is not love. Love is not a feeling. Love is an action. Love is a verb. Love is a choice. Judging by this thread, far too few people realize this.

If you say you are in love for the sole purpose of having sex, then that is the opposite of love. That is using someone for your own selfish intentions. Love does not think of itself, but of others.

[dead0man]

Love is something that people say they're in, so they can get laid. Then, they end up hurting eachother, because it was all based on lies to begin with.

Wow, that sucks dude.  We've all been there though.  True love might not be possible*, but many people find a best friend that makes them happy for a lifetime.  And maybe, that is better than love.  Love hurts.  That dull pain deep in your neck.


*I think it is possible.

[Associate Justice PiT]

     Loveless sex. I'd rather be lonely than driven insane.

[RI]

     Loveless sex. I'd rather be lonely than driven insane.

Why would insanity be brought on any more so by a lack of sex than by a lack of love?

This just tells me where our values are these days. It is very sad.

[Torie]

loveless sex, obviously.

Ya, senseless love sounds like a living hell to me.

So love without sex is senseless?

Love is something that people say they're in, so they can get laid.

 

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And people that constantly have sex outside of a loving relationship are obviously immune from being hurt.

Phil, love without sex is not senseless, but a life without sex simply isn't the option I would pick. You like veal, and I like beef, and you are OK, and I am OK (to trundle out that worn out little piece of psychobabble).

[TeePee4Prez]

     Loveless sex. I'd rather be lonely than driven insane.

Amen, brother!

I'm surprised how many men on this Forum picked Option 1.  Why even deal with females without the sex?  I can name a few exceptions, but for the most part I can't deal with women.  There I said it.  They're caddy, will twist the slightest thing you say against you, sometimes a pain in the ass to deal with in the workplace (few exceptions, of course)... Oh boy, I'm gonna be labeled a mysoginist.