In particular to those that answered the top 2(but anybody can answer) is there a particular style of argument you tend to prefer? Do you feel more comfortable "letting your guard down" among others that have similar views to your own or is it pretty equal no matter what their views are in relation to your own?
I answered "moderately open minded."
I like when an expert tells me something. Like, if I'm arguing about how to pronounce something in chinese with another gringo, and a Chinese person steps in and says, "Well, it's like this..." then I usually shut up. Or, if I'm saying that this is what you need to do to please a girl, and my friend says, "no, you dork, this is what you should do..." and then an actual female walks in and says, "Well, you should actually do this..." then I shut up and listen.
For policy questions, I also listen to experts, but less. Because there's not usually a really objectively right answer about those, the way there is when it comes to things like speaking Chinese correctly, or giving a good tumble. Policy is usually just one person's prediction versus another's. But usually on policy questions, I listen politely to anyone who disagree with me, and if I start hearing something often enough, then I start to erode over time. For example, I used to think that we ought not to bail out the banks. This was back in fall 2008. Then, a bunch of smart posters like beet and jmfcst and others started ticking off the reasons why we should. And when I objected to their reasoning they'd offer rebuttals to my rationale. In the end, I started to be convinced that it was an acceptable thing to do, so long as there were strings attached.