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Title: My Aunt passed away last night
Post by: Yelnoc on April 23, 2012, 08:24:04 AM
Her death was so sudden, so unexpected, that it still isn't real to me.  The tears will come later, right now I'm still in shock. 


Title: Re: My Aunt passed away last night
Post by: Pingvin on April 23, 2012, 08:25:09 AM
My condolences, Yelnoc.


Title: Re: My Aunt passed away last night
Post by: Phony Moderate on April 23, 2012, 08:25:11 AM
Sorry to hear that. RIP. Best wishes to you.


Title: Re: My Aunt passed away last night
Post by: Napoleon on April 23, 2012, 08:27:18 AM
May she RIP and I hope that you and your family stay strong.


Title: Re: My Aunt passed away last night
Post by: Reaganfan on April 23, 2012, 08:40:24 AM
So sorry to hear. RIP.


Title: Re: My Aunt passed away last night
Post by: They put it to a vote and they just kept lying on April 23, 2012, 08:43:38 AM
So sorry to hear :( My condolences. Hope you feel better soon :(


Title: Re: My Aunt passed away last night
Post by: Grumpier Than Uncle Joe on April 23, 2012, 08:44:02 AM
My sympathies, friend :(


Title: Re: My Aunt passed away last night
Post by: © tweed on April 23, 2012, 08:59:25 AM
it won't be real for a little while.  my unconscious has yet to accept the fact that my grandmother died, close to two years later now -- she pops up in dreams fairly consistently, always the theme is "hey grandma, I haven't talked to you in a long time".


Title: Re: My Aunt passed away last night
Post by: CLARENCE 2015! on April 23, 2012, 09:14:31 AM
Deeply sorry Yelnoc- May she rest in peace and may your family soon be at peace


Title: Re: My Aunt passed away last night
Post by: Tender Branson on April 23, 2012, 09:32:46 AM
:(

I'm very sorry to hear this. My father died last month, so I know how bad that is.

My condolences and a lot of strength for you and your family in the months ahead.


Title: Re: My Aunt passed away last night
Post by: Mechaman on April 23, 2012, 09:41:49 AM
I wish you well Yelnoc.


Title: Re: My Aunt passed away last night
Post by: Snowstalker Mk. II on April 23, 2012, 12:20:58 PM
I was thinking about this since you told me yesterday. My condolences, Yelnoc.

Did your mother make it safely to Charlotte?


Title: Re: My Aunt passed away last night
Post by: TJ in Oregon on April 23, 2012, 12:21:28 PM
Sorry to hear it Yelnoc.


Title: Re: My Aunt passed away last night
Post by: Oakvale on April 23, 2012, 01:10:54 PM
I'm very sorry to hear this, Yelnoc. I hope you and your family can stay strong and give each other some comfort.


Title: Re: My Aunt passed away last night
Post by: The world will shine with light in our nightmare on April 23, 2012, 02:02:39 PM
I'm deeply sorry to hear about this, Yelnoc.  You will be in my thoughts and prayers.


Title: Re: My Aunt passed away last night
Post by: Yelnoc on April 23, 2012, 04:09:38 PM
I was thinking about this since you told me yesterday. My condolences, Yelnoc.

Did your mother make it safely to Charlotte?

Yes she did. Thank you all for condolences. The funeral is this Friday and then her boys might come down to live with us. I don't know what will happen.


Title: Re: My Aunt passed away last night
Post by: Niemeyerite on April 23, 2012, 04:19:30 PM
I'm very sorry, Yelnoc... (also, I didn't understand you at first, sorry for that, too)


Title: Re: My Aunt passed away last night
Post by: Atlas Has Shrugged on April 24, 2012, 05:25:08 PM
I'm so sorry to hear this. I can't imagine losing my aunt (or my Uncle), whom I am close with. What was the cause of death, if you don't mind me asking?


Title: Re: My Aunt passed away last night
Post by: Yelnoc on April 26, 2012, 07:40:04 PM
I'm very sorry, Yelnoc... (also, I didn't understand you at first, sorry for that, too)
That's ok Julio, we'll reschedule it for another time.  Perhaps next week?

I'm so sorry to hear this. I can't imagine losing my aunt (or my Uncle), whom I am close with. What was the cause of death, if you don't mind me asking?
A few months ago she had a corrective surgery done on one of her feet to remove her bunyan.  The surgery failed miserably, creating nerve damage in the foot and causing her to develop a disease called RSD which is a sort of degenerative nervous disease where over a period of time the pain spreads all over one's body.  Understandably, she was on a combination of pain medications.  I'm not sure exactly what went wrong, but for whatever reason a certain combination caused her heart to stop Sunday night.  My little cousin found his mother lying facedown in the bath tub, blue and without a pulse.

The reception is tomorrow and burial Sunday.  If any of you pray, pray for strength for my family.


Title: Re: My Aunt passed away last night
Post by: They put it to a vote and they just kept lying on April 26, 2012, 07:42:14 PM
Jesus man that's awful...


Title: Re: My Aunt passed away last night
Post by: FEMA Camp Administrator on April 26, 2012, 07:44:34 PM
Very sorry to hear it. You and your family are in my thoughts and, should I remember, my prayers. As someone who lost a parent around a year and a half ago, I know how you feel. Accepting it is so huge. I honestly don't know what happened to myself. I think my mind sort of blanked out the tragedy after a little bit and somehow got used to it. But before that, every time I heard the keys jangling in the door, my mind suddenly flashed to my Dad coming home from work (as a church organist he had an unorthodox schedule). However, it was never him. I hope you can keep your aunt in your memories and remember that she existed, and remember whatever affect she had on your life.


Title: Re: My Aunt passed away last night
Post by: 🐒Gods of Prosperity🔱🐲💸 on April 27, 2012, 02:31:57 PM
I'll be praying for you and your family, Yelnoc.


Title: Re: My Aunt passed away last night
Post by: Niemeyerite on April 27, 2012, 06:24:07 PM
I'm very sorry, Yelnoc... (also, I didn't understand you at first, sorry for that, too)
That's ok Julio, we'll reschedule it for another time.  Perhaps next week?


Sure ;)


Title: Re: My Aunt passed away last night
Post by: Atlas Has Shrugged on April 27, 2012, 06:26:39 PM
I have you and your loved ones in my prayers, Yelnoc.


Title: Re: My Aunt passed away last night
Post by: Yelnoc on April 29, 2012, 01:35:47 PM
I'm back from NC.  The burial was emotional but afterwards the family went back to my grandmother's house to eat and get together.  The boys are taking it much better than I expected.  We played some basketball and I got trashed by uncle (looks can decieve!).

Thanks again to everyone for your thoughts and prayers.


Title: Re: My Aunt passed away last night
Post by: CLARENCE 2015! on April 29, 2012, 01:47:33 PM
Time with family after a tragedy like that can be the best antidote for grief... glad to hear you and family are doing ok


Title: Re: My Aunt passed away last night
Post by: Oakvale on April 29, 2012, 07:36:49 PM
Glad to see you're coping fairly well, Yel. I hope your mom's handling it as best as she can.


Title: Re: My Aunt passed away last night
Post by: They put it to a vote and they just kept lying on April 29, 2012, 07:37:42 PM
Glad to hear the family's taking it well. Hopefully the wounds heal as soon as possible :)


Title: Re: My Aunt passed away last night
Post by: Fmr President & Senator Polnut on April 30, 2012, 01:44:04 AM
It's always hard, but especially difficult when it comes out of nowhere, that was how my father went.

Spending out of the pressure-cooker is especially important.

I hope all continues to go as well as possible.