Update Thread and Other Ramblings by BushOklahoma

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Plus, a side note, she loves Christmas just about as much as I do, so there will be two of us.   She also loves Easter as much, if not a bit more than Christmas.

More than Christmas? That's a dealbreaker.

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You do realize that you have now moved up the proposal date from October to July 4th to sometime in June to now May?

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Christmas -> Thanksgiving -> October -> September/August -> July 4th -> May/June -> Mid May -> April 3rd.

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Does BushOK's sect of Christianity believe that engaged people can live in the same house? Or is that still sinful?

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Yeah, only David Lynch and really cool black guys are allowed to button the top button and not wear a tie.

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lol

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I'm finding out more and more each day that she is the one for me!!

uhhhh...

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We had a good dinner this evening and a nice chat.  She expressed some concerns, which I happily agreed to the changes.  Nothing was ever in question or in jeopardy, but now that we're 3 weeks into the engagement, she is starting to shift her mentality from being a momma's girl to being a wife.  She does want me to clean up better, which I agree.  Being a bachelor really is no excuse for a messy house or messy car.  This is where the relationship will really take off when we come to agreement on concerns about each other.  Getting the concerns out of the way now is a really healthy thing for a relationship, because, the closer we get to the wedding, the more stressed we'll be and the less time we'll have to worry about concerns.  Like with any relationship, there must be compromise, and that's what we will do.  Plus, this will teach us that we can work things out when we do get married and are in a lifetime commitment.  We have a pact in our relationship that the word divorce will be banned from our vocabulary.

What concerns of yours is she making efforts and compromises to meet?