The UK, Scandinavia, Canada, Australia, the Netherlands, all have one thing in common, they didn't obtain democracy by war or revolution. The only exception to that I can think of is the US, but you guys are the exception that confirm the rule.
Not really. We had democracy over here (albeit not a total democracy by modern standards) prior to the Revolution. We had also had de facto autonomy in America since the time of the Glorious Revolution in 1688-9. Parliament's efforts to reign in that autonomy after the Seven Years War were a primary cause of the revolution.