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snowguy716
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« on: January 06, 2010, 04:11:48 PM » |
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« edited: January 06, 2010, 04:13:27 PM by Snowguy716 »
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I got spanked like 3 times as a kid.
My dad spanked my brother a lot and quite severely... until one day my brother got so mad that he punched my dad in the face and he got a bloody nose. That's when he realized that spanking wasn't effective.
Still, he spanked me a few times and I would get so angry at him.. once when I was like 6 I slammed my bedroom door so hard that the plastic light switch cover cracked and broke in half...
All the spanking did was make me defiant... so he stopped.
So.. I would never spank my kids. It's so incredibly pointless. There is no reason a full grown adult should be hitting any child. If you feel a need to hit your child, it is YOU that needs to learn discipline, not your child.
A far more effective punishment is to make the child stand with their nose up against a wall for a good half hour or so.
Edit: I think there is one case where a quick swat might be warranted (not to hurt the child but to surprise them).. if your child was about to run out into a street with traffic... I'd wrench him back and swat him on the butt to scare the hell out of him.
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