I'm religious, but not conservative. Obviously I would love them just the same and not treat them any differently; I would not feel bitterness towards it, either. Heck, I've been reading some things lately that suggest that the anti-gay rhetoric in the Bible is just mistranslated scripture.
I've read a couple books on that myself, the better one being by a Catholic clergyman.
Not sure how much I buy into that. Bigotry is far more prominent than tolerance in the Abrahamic religions worldwide. It is hard to believe that it is not by design.