I don't understand why people can't grasp the fact is that everything we think and feel comes from the brain. Simple as that. There is no evidence that it comes from elswhere, no evidence that there is anything other than the brain that processes it. If you drink it affects your brain, if you take drugs, have a stroke, get shot in the head it affects your brain. When you die you cease to think.
Again, a causal relationship doesn't equal a relationship of identity. Everything you post above is entirely consistent with even the most radical variant of cartesian dualism. I personally hold that we are quite empathically not our brain, but that's largely a combination of personal preference and the simple observation that reductionist accounts of the mind consistently fail to answer the delightfully simple qualia-objection.*
If you happen to be a reductionist that's fine with me of course, but you'll have to accept that I think you the victim of rather a nasty case of conceptual confusion. As Thomas Nagel says in 'What is it like to be a bat?' an identity theory of the mind may well be true, but it seems to be the case that we can't possibly imagine how it could be true.
*: Another problem for such a theory is, I understand, that type-physicalism is rendered wholly untenable by such phenomena as the plasticity of the brain or, more exotically, the possibility of alien minds. We are then left with token-physicalism, which I don't find an at all attractive alternative.