Welcome, Guest. Please login or register.
Did you miss your activation email?
April 20, 2019, 03:40:41 am
News: Please delete your old personal messages.

  Atlas Forum
  Forum Community
  Forum Community (Moderators: NYGurl, Cath, TJ in Oregon)
  I need some advice
« previous next »
Pages: [1] Print
Author Topic: I need some advice  (Read 1447 times)
J-Mann
YaBB God
*****
Posts: 3,196
United States


Show only this user's posts in this thread
« on: April 18, 2015, 02:52:49 pm »

I know I'm the one who is usually giving advice on both professional and personal matters, but now I'm in need of some. And maybe not even advice ... maybe just some friendlies who can listen and give feedback on my situation. I've recently had a professional experience that crosses into some ethical and professional territory that I had trouble navigating, and I'd appreciate anyone who is willing to give my situation their take.

It's not something that I'll post publicly, but if you're interested, let me know on here -- I'll PM my story either later today or tomorrow.

Thanks in advance, guys. I just feel like I need to get this out. Oh, and don't be offended if you offer but aren't PMed ... I will probably only message those who I know if they offer.
Logged
solarstorm
solarstorm2012
YaBB God
*****
Posts: 1,639
United States
Show only this user's posts in this thread
« Reply #1 on: April 18, 2015, 02:59:21 pm »

Do you need to know how to make a ghost message disappear?
Logged
King
intermoderate
YaBB God
*****
Posts: 29,477
United States


Show only this user's posts in this thread
« Reply #2 on: April 18, 2015, 03:26:23 pm »

Do you need to know how to make a ghost message disappear?
Logged
J-Mann
YaBB God
*****
Posts: 3,196
United States


Show only this user's posts in this thread
« Reply #3 on: April 18, 2015, 03:30:15 pm »

Sorry, I'm not getting the reference. I am actually looking for some legitimate help.
Logged
Phony Moderate
Obamaisdabest
YaBB God
*****
Posts: 12,350
United States


Show only this user's posts in this thread
« Reply #4 on: April 18, 2015, 03:42:45 pm »

Why, if you really needed advice, would you ask for it on here? Jeez.
Logged
J-Mann
YaBB God
*****
Posts: 3,196
United States


Show only this user's posts in this thread
« Reply #5 on: April 18, 2015, 03:53:32 pm »

Why, if you really needed advice, would you ask for it on here? Jeez.

I've communicated with some of these people for years, as I've been on here for 11. I respect many of them for their intelligence and their own experiences, and this is the easiest way to reach them. No one in my immediate circle is either capable of understanding my issue nor particularly interested in giving a response. If you're not interested, then don't respond either. I'm asking for those who are.
Logged
patrick1
YaBB God
*****
Posts: 7,875


Show only this user's posts in this thread
« Reply #6 on: April 18, 2015, 04:13:29 pm »

Why, if you really needed advice, would you ask for it on here? Jeez.

I've communicated with some of these people for years, as I've been on here for 11. I respect many of them for their intelligence and their own experiences, and this is the easiest way to reach them. No one in my immediate circle is either capable of understanding my issue nor particularly interested in giving a response. If you're not interested, then don't respond either. I'm asking for those who are.

What's up Jesse, Ive grown quite adept at navigating difficult office environments, Give me a shout.
Logged
Gustaf
Moderators
YaBB God
*****
Posts: 29,264


Political Matrix
E: 0.39, S: -0.70

P P

Show only this user's posts in this thread
« Reply #7 on: April 19, 2015, 08:19:22 am »

Is it a gay thing?

Dude, shut up.
Logged
AndrewTX
AndrewCT
YaBB God
*****
Posts: 7,096


Show only this user's posts in this thread
« Reply #8 on: April 19, 2015, 09:18:54 am »

Sorry, I'm not getting the reference. I am actually looking for some legitimate help.

FYI, if your still looking for help, I'd be happy to listen. I may be the forum oaf, but I did serve as a office representing human relations for 6 years, usually dealing in... Unethical things
Logged
AkSaber
YaBB God
*****
Posts: 6,324
United States


Political Matrix
E: 9.35, S: -8.26

Show only this user's posts in this thread
« Reply #9 on: April 19, 2015, 04:10:35 pm »

I'm sorry you're going through this. Sad Whatever you decide to do, please don't compromise your morals. Whomever it may be complicating your life, don't allow those types to take away your integrity.

I've seen more than my fair share of those cut-throat douches at work. Angry
Logged
Good Grumps With A Gun
GM3PRP
YaBB God
*****
Posts: 40,869
Russian Federation
Show only this user's posts in this thread
« Reply #10 on: April 19, 2015, 08:10:11 pm »

Hang tough and say hi, Jesse.
Logged
SunriseAroundTheWorld
YaBB God
*****
Posts: 7,543
United States


Show only this user's posts in this thread
« Reply #11 on: April 19, 2015, 11:11:54 pm »

Is it a gay thing?

gtfo, just gtfo and think about what you said.
Logged
solarstorm
solarstorm2012
YaBB God
*****
Posts: 1,639
United States
Show only this user's posts in this thread
« Reply #12 on: April 20, 2015, 04:32:25 am »

gtfo, just gtfo and think about what you said.

Dude, shut up.

Guys, I don't know what kind of issues J-Mann has, as he refuses me to PM me.
So, there's no need for you to attack me, k?
Logged
Gustaf
Moderators
YaBB God
*****
Posts: 29,264


Political Matrix
E: 0.39, S: -0.70

P P

Show only this user's posts in this thread
« Reply #13 on: April 20, 2015, 04:54:25 am »

gtfo, just gtfo and think about what you said.

Dude, shut up.

Guys, I don't know what kind of issues J-Mann has, as he refuses me to PM me.
So, there's no need for you to attack me, k?

Apart from generally being creepy, it was very clear from his initial post that he did not want to discuss this publicly but through private PMs. So you asking intrusive and insensitive questions in the thread is just being offensive trolling.

I don't know Jesse personally so I've no idea what he's going through and based on what he said I didn't even PM him because I assume he wants to have the talk with people who know him better. But it is apparently a big thing for him so no need for you to be a douche.

The fact that you're harassing him privately as well as publicly makes it more important to call you out for your creepiness.
Logged
afleitch
Moderators
YaBB God
*****
Posts: 24,747


Political Matrix
E: 2.45, S: -8.17

Show only this user's posts in this thread
« Reply #14 on: April 20, 2015, 07:16:41 am »

I don't know you that well, but I'm happy to help if you need any advice.
Logged
Torie
Moderators
YaBB God
*****
Posts: 38,131
Samoa


Show only this user's posts in this thread
« Reply #15 on: April 20, 2015, 12:35:44 pm »

I don't know you that well, but I'm happy to help if you need any advice.
Logged
Pages: [1] Print 
« previous next »
Jump to:  


Login with username, password and session length
Logout

Terms of Service - DMCA Agent and Policy - Privacy Policy and Cookies

Powered by SMF 1.1.21 | SMF © 2015, Simple Machines