I met a cute guy in West Virginia...

[🐒Gods of Prosperity🔱🐲💸]

Icespear, your absence will be missed.

Hey, Commiela, still think gay men are better?

Unless you're gay, don't pretend that you understand gay men or our experiences.  I definitely wonder how this guy is treated in West Virginia.  While Icespear shouldn't be so condescending, the LGBT community is particularly vulnerable in rural areas with a socially conservative culture.

I doubt you would have said something like this if we were talking about race.  And I can't help but get the feeling that you're going out of your way to try and impress Kamala.  

Oh my god these two posts...

What is wrong with my post?  Are you implying that I'm too sensitive about the reality of being gay in a hostile environment that is also your home?  Are you upset that I didn't laugh at Jacobin's joke?

Maybe you're trying to impress other posters with your casual "*scoff* pshaw... look at these two losers!" schtick?

I am really confused here!  I don't know whether to think you're just awful or if you're mostly just background noise... or both?

The problem isn't that you didn't get the joke, its that the fact that you didn't understand what it was about didn't keep you from attacking people over it.

I understood perfectly what it was about.  I also understood the intention, which was to impress Kamala at the expense of Icespear and, inappropriately, all gay men.

I concede that it was in poor taste and offensive, which I honestly didn't intend. The fault there is my own. However, I disagree with the conclusion that it was "to impress Kamala" because it really wasn't. I made a series of half-serious and joking posts yesterday and that was simply one of them. And boy, what a clusterf*** it turned into...

It's alright.  You don't need my forgiveness but you can have it anyway.  I hope you forgive me for misinterpreting your intention.  My offense led me to the worst conclusion.  I'd honestly rather discussions get heated like this and people yell at each other a bit... hopefully with the end result being that we all understand each other better.  That's how you, in my opinion, build respect and community.

At least you are now admitting you were wrong about Jacobin.  That's more than I expected, even if it required you first making  some weird commentary about how supposedly dispassionate I am about anything.

[Holmes]

The last thing that goes through my mind when I chat with a guy on Grindr is "Wow, I should share this experience on one of the dumbest websites I visit on a regular basis!"

To be fair, it only did because it was in West Virginia. Atlas never crossed my mind when I had Grindr hookups during my road trip in Philadelphia, Harrisburg, Pittsburgh, Columbus, Kansas City, Salina, Omaha, Rapid City, Sioux Falls, Denver, Salt Lake City, Cheyenne, Missoula, Twin Falls, Coeur D'Alene, Spokane, and Seattle.

Rip your hole

More like their holes.

Doubt

[TPIG]

The last thing that goes through my mind when I chat with a guy on Grindr is "Wow, I should share this experience on one of the dumbest websites I visit on a regular basis!"

To be fair, it only did because it was in West Virginia. Atlas never crossed my mind when I had Grindr hookups during my road trip in Philadelphia, Harrisburg, Pittsburgh, Columbus, Kansas City, Salina, Omaha, Rapid City, Sioux Falls, Denver, Salt Lake City, Cheyenne, Missoula, Twin Falls, Coeur D'Alene, Spokane, and Seattle.

Rip your hole

More like their holes.

Yeah yeah... it's your life but still...

[Rookie Yinzer]

IceSpear you are underrated as a poster, imo.

[kyc0705]

The last thing that goes through my mind when I chat with a guy on Grindr is "Wow, I should share this experience on one of the dumbest websites I visit on a regular basis!"

To be fair, it only did because it was in West Virginia. Atlas never crossed my mind when I had Grindr hookups during my road trip in Philadelphia, Harrisburg, Pittsburgh, Columbus, Kansas City, Salina, Omaha, Rapid City, Sioux Falls, Denver, Salt Lake City, Cheyenne, Missoula, Twin Falls, Coeur D'Alene, Spokane, and Seattle.

Rip your hole

More like their holes.

Now that I know you're a top, your username makes more sense, but is also more disturbing.

(Also, insert obligatory "There are gay people in Idaho/Wyoming/Nebraska?" joke)