1972 - Nation wide popularity of Nixon
1984 - Nation wide popularity of Reagan and the economic growth at the time benefiting suburbs really big.
1996 - Popularity of Clinton in Northeast burbs and economy recovering from 1990-1991 recession.
2004 - Bush swinging and turning out lots of suburban italian americans and suburban+wwc+"wwc-ish suburbanites"(especially in Suffolk and Staten island)
2012 - Obama hugging Christie made a few suburbanites in NJ either stay home or vote for Obama. As for NY there was a slight swing to romney.
Regarding 2004, I think 9/11 was a factor, too.