A brutal system leads to brutal behaviour; not an excuse, but an acknowledgement that 1980s South Africa was in many ways in a state of near collapse - something which people would do well to remember when bemoaning the very many issues the country is facing today.
An infinitely larger number of black people died because of actions by the Umkhonto we Sizwe terrorists than by actions by the actual apartheid government. A pretty damning conclusion, and if 1980s South Africa was truly in a state of near collapse, this was one of the main reasons for it.
Death tolls often aren't a great measure of brutality - there's a brutality inherent in having your life constrained through the use of state power, which always implies the threat of violence. If those targeted by this power are left unharmed by the barrel of a gun, it's only because they've complied, it's not due to the benevolence of the state.
Whenever the state does this to a large group of people and does not offer them a legitimate mechanism with which to voice their discontent, this leads to violence. It doesn't only lead to violence against state actors but also often encourages communalist violence, nihilistic behavior etc.